Friday, January 01, 2010

一年之計

小時候你可否想過長大了要做一個怎樣的人?要做一位偉大的醫生?盡心盡力的教師?或是保護市民的警察?

昨天除夕在行街時,女友問我這條問題。其實這個問題比較其它的假設題好答,若問你喜歡周秀娜或是Lavina那種的女生之類,這些問題便要小心處理。

其實我小時候沒有特別對某些職業有好感,有空我便會跟隨家人到親戚的舖頭幫忙,讀書時候也到過餐館做part time,我覺得工作搵錢養家是必然的。

做人是不應該閒下來,要做一個有用的人。

記得周星馳某套電影講過,若做人沒有夢想,只是一條可憐蟲。做人有理想,有夢想,可以令你攀得更高,走得更遠。

但人長大了,似乎明白了很多的夢想都變得遙不可及,多次的努力仍然是白費,覺得時間越來越有限。自己實在太過渺小了,這生可以achieve到什麼呢?

就算工作全力以赴,成功的意義亦變得模糊,有時覺得為盡力為公司拼摶,工作上的成功並不代表人生的快樂。為什麼花這麼多的時間呢?像20/80 定律,其實80%的工作,可以只花20%的時間去處理。青春無多,若能省下時間,去及時行樂也總算不枉這生。

不過每次這樣去想,總是覺得好guilty,這樣做實在違反了做一個有用的人的原則。

有時在office百無聊籟,會在google中找尋一下各式各樣的文字,在次google"做一個有用的人"這句子,竟然找到一篇大陸小學六年級生的文章。作者叫讀者向天文學家霍金學習,鼓勵人不要怕挫折,做一個有用的人。這一篇簡單的文章對我有很大的迴響,我們對生命實在太多的抱怨,其實比起霍金,what is stopping you to achieve greater thing in life? 

日復日,年復年,沒錯過年過節對我來說的意義已變得不太重要。但在過每一天,我都可以過得比昨天做得好一點點,有意義一點點,對身邊的人關懷多一些,對地球多一分環保。

2010,不要忘記你的理想,做一個有用的人。

9 comments:

Denzel Leung said...

梁弟兄,
呢篇簡直警世良言!!

Judy H said...

Since U grad i have had some new year resolutions...except last year couldn't think up any good things but the ball should start rolling again. G, thank you for this post at that start of 2010!!

dd2 said...

可能男女的想法不同吧, 我覺得有用與否, 不一定要在工作上反映出來. 工作也不應該佔據我人生大部份時間.
我覺得開心是最重要的. 何謂開心? 因人而異吧.
總之, 祝大家2010年開開心心~

Xavier said...

梁弟兄,

唔系呀馬?有感而發o者。新年快樂!

judy,

The ball starts rolling ... 咁大家努力d啦。

dd2,

Happy New Year喎。希望你今年過得開心啦。

:)

readandeat said...

呢篇好正經,我要正經啲留言。

幫人打工始終老板不是你,那是老板的事業,你不用賣命。這是我的工作態度。

錢是永遠也搵不完的。但,搵到錢要有命有健康和有時間去享受那些才是錢,否則只是銀行簿上一堆數字。

祝新年快樂。

myblahblahblah said...

happy new year!!

有時候的確迷失在工作和讀書裡, 一天又一天的 9am - 11pm, 不知道自己在追求什麼. 但我想, 這些該做的, 還是乖乖地去做啦.

做了這些該做的事, 大概都變成一個有用的人. 一直都深信, 今天的努力, 就算明天用不著, 將來都一定不會浪費. =D

Xavier said...

Hi R&E, myblah,

Happy New Year :) 希望大家今年都努力D, 同埋 工作順順利利. well, 有些事情系要take it one step at a time. 我覺得enjoy 其中的process變得重要.

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