Sunday, April 04, 2010

殯儀


今年復活節撞清明夾埋前兩日系愚人節,真系夠晒節日氣氛。

其實這兩天也是舅母出殯的日子,我不太懂怎樣去開解別人,但舅父母一家跟我們很熟,所以守夜及上山兩天我們都全家出動,對我來說,算是盡一點點的力去幫忙和支持。

現在守夜的時間,也只是6點至9點半左右。而上山其實是到鑽石山的火化場,現在的儀式可說是十分簡單和有效率,進入會堂之後,前後不用五分鐘,便完成整個禮儀。看著棺木送輸送帶上,送進焚化爐的機器之內,向舅母送上最後的祝福。

最後到酒家吃俗稱“解穢酒”的”英雄宴“,雖然親友聚首一堂,但自己平時和他們沒有什麼話題,再面對著千篇一律的菜式,感覺上有點無奈。

記得03年祖母去世,也是在4/1晚上守夜,當時還傳來張國榮跳樓自殺的消息。今年舅母剛剛做祖母,年紀並不算大,兩年前還一起去飲宴,去世的消息真是突然。

出席喪禮雖然黯然,但再提醒我們的生命無常,要對身邊的人要好一點。

3 comments:

readandeat said...

人生就是這樣:

喜宴……送殯……喜宴……送殯……

肥貓 said...

係喎! 復活節撞清明夾埋愚人節, 好複雜下喎!!

出席喪禮是黯然, 我每年去拜山也有同一感覺, 望住一個個石碑, 這個很年輕就去世, 那個是夫婦二人合葬..... 每個石碑埋藏了不為人知的故事.

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